What does a healthy love relationship look like? How would you describe two people who are in love? We have so many mixed ideas of what LOVE should look like based on the movies and television, music, our families of origin and any dating we may have done or not done. How do you think God would answer these questions?
"Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone." (Colossians 4:6) Does this verse describe your average conversation with those you love? Would those who know you best say that you are "full of grace"? How do you speak to others when you are tired or in a bad mood? Our words carry great power to impact others and are a valuable tool God has given us to communicate love.
"I just fell out of love and no longer want to be with her." Those were the words a friend told me recently concerning his relationship with his wife. What's LOVE got to do with it? The question Tina Turner raised in her 1980's hit is still a relevant question in today's world. What does the Bible have to say concerning the intersection of love and feelings? Join us over the month of February as we discuss this subject, as well as marriage, communication, lust and love.
“The chief priests accused him of many things. So again Pilate asked him, ‘Aren’t you going to answer? See how many things they are accusing you of.’ But Jesus still made no reply, and Pilate was amazed.” (Mark 15:3-5)
When Jesus was accused publicly of crimes he hadn't committed and questioned by the local governor, he remained almost completely silent. How do you suppose you would respond in a similar situation? Jesus did not feel compelled to defend himself, nor was he concerned about what others thought of him. Can the same be said for us?
When it comes to the concept of "Traveling Light", many carry the heavy burdens of others. This could mean that we seek to bear the burdens (such as other people's cares) that we were not meant to carry; Or perhaps we drag the luggage of constantly caring far too much about what others think of us.
In Exodus chapter 20, the Lord warns against worshipping false gods. Then, He speaks of "punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the 3rd & 4th generation of those who hate Him." (20:5). What implications do the sins of our parents have on us now that Jesus has died for our sins? Does this generational curse still exist?
What was your childhood like? Even if your family put the "fun" back in "dysfunction" there are no perfect families. Consider some of the unhealthy models from this week's passages: Cain & Abel, Rebekah & Isaac, Jacob & Esau, Aaron & Miriam, David & Absalom... How do you deal with family baggage when it comes to traveling light?
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Many people make New Year's resolutions to lose a few pounds, and travel with a lighter load around the waist. What if in 2019 we focused on offloading another type of weight? What ideas, fears and anxieties weigh you down?
Many people live their lives in the tyranny of the urgent. When we move at a rapid rate it can be difficult to stop and reflect on the past. Our past is important. Remembering God’s faithfulness and lessons He has taught us along the way help to inform our future. What has God taught you in 2018? What do you believe He has in store for you in the coming year?
Imagine you are God and you want to introduce yourself to humanity (your creation). How would you do it? Would you appear larger than life like the Jolly Green Giant and demonstrate your power? Would you write a message in the sky? Would you speak to each human via email, by letter, or on television? God choose an extremely humbling route; He came as a child. A child cannot defend itself. A baby cannot command and lead a group. An infant is dependent on others. He came in a spirit of love and humility.
Some people love to give. Generosity is an attribute of God, and yet recognizing the fact that God gives generously, entails that someone receives. How do you do when it comes to receiving?
Do you believe that title statement? Jesus was quoted as speaking those words in Acts 20:35, but do they ring true during this season? Christmas is coming, a holiday which reminds us of the greatest gift given to mankind, God's son Emmanuel. What does it mean that God was willing to make such a sacrifice on our behalf? How do we respond to such a gift?
FAITH OVER FEAR
When an obstacle presents itself in your life how do you respond? Do you move immediately to the worse case scenarios, or do you begin to consider solutions? Do you panic, or do you place your fear at the feet of the One who can diminish any Goliath-size problem, and calm any storm, regardless of the severity?
In the USA there is a special value placed on self-made people; on those who have pulled themselves up from their own bootstraps, and made something out of nothing. There is no problem honoring achievement; in fact it is a good thing. However, I wonder if that ideology has had an adverse effect on group achievement? How does that impact the way we think and face struggles? Is your first thought to get through something alone, or to turn to others? Jesus sent His followers out in groups of two. Jesus put a strong emphasis on community over the individual, on the team over the player. Scripture says that a cord of three strands is not quickly broken, and that it helps to have more than one human when trying to keep warm. What value do you place on being together?
How does the exercise of gratitude impact your life and attitude? What are you thankful for? When something goes your way, or a person does something kind for you, do you feel deserving or appreciative?
It is easy to talk a big talk, but when the pressure is on how do we actually live? The world is looking for people who are true to their character, and who are honest about their personal mistakes. The evidence of God's Spirit at work in our lives should bring about a change and a willingness to be truthful about our shortcomings.
The characteristics that God's Spirit are at work in a person's life are commonly referred to as the "fruit of the Spirit." In our modern vernacular people rarely use the word "fruit" to describe a response. The word "evidence" more accurately describes what God's Spirit is up to when transforming a follower of Christ. What is our part when it comes to His work in our lives?
The Holy Spirit has been given to lead us into all truth, convict the world of sin, empower followers of Jesus to do miraculous things, and to bring about change in our lives. What have you witnessed Him doing in your life? What would you love to see Him do?
Overlooking a valley filled with the bones of men and women who had died without a proper burial, God asked the prophet Ezekiel, "Can dry bones come to life?" Ezekiel responded, “Sovereign Lord, you alone know.” Rather than answering with a simple "yes" or "no," God encouraged his prophet to act. “Prophesy to these bones and say to them, ‘Dry bones, hear the word of the Lord! This is what the Sovereign Lord says to these bones: I will make breath enter you, and you will come to life." Ezekiel prophesied, and the miracle took place before his very eyes. How do we understand the power of the prophetic word with the truth and power of God? Does God still give men and women words of prophesy?
There are a few topics that have historically polarized the church in terms of their interpretation of particular biblical subjects. One area has to do with the understanding of prophesy, and speaking in tongues. I Corinthians 14:39-40 says, "Therefore, my brothers and sisters, be eager to prophesy, and do not forbid speaking in tongues. But everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way."
We are in our third week of the "It's for Real" series. We continue to study what the Bible has to say about Spiritual Warfare, and aspects of the Holy Spirit. This week we will begin to take a look at the Spiritual Gifts. How has God equipped us uniquely to make an impact on this planet?